No.118735
In the case of Transmacs, often it's the weird dynamic of infatilization and fetishization; With non-TERF transphobes they're treated as poor brainwashed/confused women who don't know better, and I've noticed as well that there's always a kind of perverse tone of "You're were/are still really fuckable, you didn't/don't have to do this to yourself!" framing their transition as though because they haven't received the "Right" or "Enough" sexual attention they're "giving up" on being women. Even with TERFs, they also parrot the "poor woman who doesn't know better" bit, but also a lot of what they say to/about transmascs is really fucking Incel-y, fluctuating between frothing at the mouth that they're "moving into privilege" and then doing a 180 and crying about how "we've lost a lesbian" as though lesbian's bodies and autonomy belongs to them.
In the case of NB people, I've noticed they tend to get the worst of the transphobe tactic of constantly stating that "Trans people are fucking ugly and unfuckable"; hell, most alt-right propaganda focused on fomenting hatred towards trans people, and present us as "crazy, unlovable, unfuckable, degenerates" typically depicts caricatures of NB people or uses photos of NB activists.
I think on some level it has to do with the reality that the majority of people would/do want to sleep with us; but, not acknowledging that while also accepting that they don't want to respect us as human beings results in people being unable to mentally decouple our baseline existence with the idea of "sex". Granted, it probably also doesn't help that for a lot of people - and I would say the majority, up until recently - their first exposure to trans people was probably through some form of "adult entertainment", since those kinds of spaces "welcomes" [heavy quotation marks] trans people. But, that last bit's kind of a personal theory.